Super Tips for Soothing Fussy Babies

Even as parents start to feel more confident, a baby may become more dependent or fussy causing parents to feel drained or unsure of what to do.
The “Cry it Out” Method. Many parents turn to the “cry it out” method, also known as Ferberizing, as a last resort. Most parents don’t necessarily feel they will use this type of method, until they are extremely sleep deprived or have “given up.”
A baby’s cry is a baby’s language. It provokes a response from the parents, letting them know something isn’t right. A parent’s (especially a mother’s) response is to nurture the baby. Nature intended that instinctive response to ensure survival.
The profile of a fussy baby can look very for each child. Your baby may have one or more of these character traits:

• Intense. These babies put more energy into everything they do, from urgent demanding feedings, to persistent crying.
• Hyperactive. Does not like to be swaddled, can’t seem to sit still.
• Draining. Constant holding, nursing, and comforting.
• Feeds frequently. These babies learn quickly that the breast is a great place for food AND comforting.
• Demanding. Similar to an intense baby, these babies demand attention, very loudly in fact.
• Awakens frequently. Small cat naps throughout the day, and/or waking often at night.
• Unsatisfied. You’ve tried everything; nursed, rocked, walked, wore, drove, but still not happy.
• Unpredictable. These babies portray extreme mood swings.
• Super sensitive. Easily bothered, like “walking on eggshells.”
• Unable to be put down. These babies crave physical contact.
• Uncuddly. Resist close physical contact or being swaddled.
• Not a self-soother. Babies with this trait need help being comforted.
• Separation-sensitive. These babies only trust a couple of people, usually just the parents.  

There are multiple causes of fussiness in babies. The type of cry, the behavior of your child, the body language and facial features all help uncover the answer. Do not forget to also use your intuition as a parent. If you feel something isn’t right, trust your gut!